maryfduffy:

1. Reconnecting with any number of people at my college reunion has led to some pretty profound revelations for me, some that I probably need more time to think about before writing about here, but it’s Sunday, and I must needs write my Five Things.

[Ed. Once again, a shout out to smashfizzle and

"How I no longer embody the person all these people remembered." YES, THIS. I was so confident in college, so unafraid, so…dazzling, really. And I’ve lost that—broken down by illness, unable to express an opinion without backtracking. Afraid. It hurts so much that there are people out there who knew me as such a different person, much more the person I still want to be.

What happened to us, Mary?

Also, wow, I wonder what it’s like to have a Symposium seminar when I’m not sloppy drunk on cheap wine. Looking back, I wish I’d actually gone for that M/M/F threesome…

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chris4eva:

Somebody asked for a steam punk flamingo. I tried.

chris4eva:

Somebody asked for a steam punk flamingo. I tried.

redqueenwildboy:

bisexualpiratequeen:

why has my period started again it’s only been a week

Hello this is science min sometimes during periods of high physical or mental stress your period can “pause” part of the way through and then start up again however if the bleed feels like it…

I’m very pleased to have this confirmed by Science! It’s definitely happened to me when I get sick during my period. Kind of nice, actually, at least I didn’t have that to worry about while I felt otherwise gross.

Also, feel better, poor sweet goddess. Ford the river Vimur and come out on the other side!

Zarathustra the cat with his life size portrait by Claude Monet.

Zarathustra the cat with his life size portrait by Claude Monet.

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Drew this superheroine alter ego way back in the 90s and slapped her on a T-shirt. Yes, her sword is called “Zandora the Emasculator.”So I’ve essentially been a Toastie for two decades.

Drew this superheroine alter ego way back in the 90s and slapped her on a T-shirt. Yes, her sword is called “Zandora the Emasculator.”

So I’ve essentially been a Toastie for two decades.

Tags: misandry

bisexualpiratequeen:

do not try to have a conversation with me when I’m hungry because I hate you and everything you stand for and all your family and even your ultimate genetic ancestor, dickface

The number of different emotions for which I mistake hunger is truly staggering. Angry? No, hungry. Sad? No, hungry. Sleepy? No, hungry. Existential crisis? Nah, you should probably just have a snack.

bublog:

September 3rd is National GOOD JOB BUB DAY, so give yourself a pat on the back, and let’s congratulate BUB for not only jumping up to the window sill herself, but also for gracefully BUBALANCING her amazing body on it. GOOD JOB BUB

How did I GOOD JOB BUB today? Well, I paid rent and bought cat food despite having a nasty tummyache. I think that counts.

bublog:

September 3rd is National GOOD JOB BUB DAY, so give yourself a pat on the back, and let’s congratulate BUB for not only jumping up to the window sill herself, but also for gracefully BUBALANCING her amazing body on it. 

GOOD JOB BUB

How did I GOOD JOB BUB today? Well, I paid rent and bought cat food despite having a nasty tummyache. I think that counts.

"…while “the female gaze” is attracted by things like a naked, sweaty Chris Evans or Idris Elba, it’s also attracted by things like: men smiling in sweaters, men crying (DON’T LIE TUMBLR), barefoot fragile Sebastian Stan in the rain on Political Animals, men holding babies, men speaking foreign languages, Mark Ruffalo, and a whole bunch of weird stuff on Ao3 that I don’t even wanna get into. And that’s just “the female gaze as it pertains to men.”"

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This is God’s truth. Tell it like it is!

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read the whole thing. it is so good.

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